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| "Reading Lost in Space by Ben Tanzer" copyright 2014 Kristin Fouquet
I began reading Lost in Space: A Father’s Journey There and
Back Again by Ben Tanzer on June 3rd, 2014. The date is significant to me
because it was the 22nd anniversary of my father’s death. This
wasn’t consciously premeditated; I just sort of picked it up that day and
realized the coincidence.
Tanzer attempts
to navigate through the role of parent via memories of his deceased father and experiences
with his own sons. He employs creative devices in these essays as well. In
“The Penis Stories,” he loosely veils the identity of his two boys by giving
them aliases while understanding full well the reader clearly knows who is who.
In “Anatomy of the Story,” he cleverly begins with the end and ends with the
beginning.
With honesty,
poignancy, and humor, Tanzer conveys the vulnerability conscientious parents
share in the raising of children. “No Avoiding That” demonstrates how time-outs
work as much for the parents to cool down, or more so, as for the children who
are sentenced to them.
For this reader,
the only challenge with this collection was its reliance on many pop cultural
references which eluded me. One such example is the essay, “The Don Draper
Interlude: A Mad Men Guide to Raising
Children.” Of course, this is not Tanzer’s fault; it is my own for being so
hopelessly unhip.
As I delved further
into Lost in Space, I found myself
reflecting on my own father. I contemplated the important decisions he was
forced to make, many of them without the luxury of time, reflection, or
guidance. At the age of thirteen, he attempted to wake his own father up from
an after-work nap only to find him dead. I wondered how lost he must have felt
as a father after having such a short relationship with his own.
I am grateful
Tanzer allowed this peek into his life as a son and as a father with all its
fears, hopes, denials, and joys. I believe this book is one he will always be
proud of and also a beautiful gift to his sons. Oh, and speaking of gifts,
Father’s Day is next Sunday. Why not order a copy for all the great dads in
your life?
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"Reading Karen Lillis" copyright 2014 Kristin Fouquet Perpetual Poetry: Words Inspiring Words a review of The Paul Simon Project by Karen Lillis I have a confession to make. I am not a poet. I write fiction and I believe writing poetry is a completely different process. I love reading good poetry, but I am in no way a poetry scholar. These are the reasons I usually do not review poetry chapbooks. The Paul Simon Project by Karen Lillis is only my second exception to this rule. Influenced by Simon’s words and music on the album Still Crazy After All These Years , Lillis duplicates the song titles for her poems in this collection. Some follow a similar path as the subject of the song; others venture in their own direction. The album’s title song inspires a poem which mimics the melancholy and sentimentality of the original. Yet, she pumps it up with a contemporary edginess and gender reversal. In “M...
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